He's 31, military guy. We've only been 2gether since about November and its been long distance the entire time but its amazing how close you can become w/someone when its mainly verbal/written communication. Basically what happened is that I was crabby and tired last night and he called me from a bar to say hi and I could've sworn I heard a chick's voice in the bkgnd so I asked him what in the heck was going back. He called me back later explained that since it was a crowded bar he didn't know what I had heard and asked if that's how things were going to be and that I ruined his night and that i'm not acting like I trust him, etc. I hoping he's not really that upset b/c he was quite drunk. But still, I think an apology is in order. Keep in mind this is still long distance (until June) so make up sex or anything involving physical presence is out of the picture...
GUYS ESPECIALLY...what is the most effective way to apologize to a guy?
Well i mean the best thing to do is to say your sorry.., because u cant really do anything other then that , .....
Reply:Explain that sometimes the physical distance between you takes it's toll and then apologize for allowing it to rule your brain and say things that you don't truly mean. Unless of course deep inside you do suspect some hanky-panky - in which case it will only get worse over time, not better. Do not allow him to make you feel ashamed or guilty for rational insecurities. We are all entitled to it and it only takes a moment to deliver reassurance.
Reply:well, i dont wanna read the whole story u wrote
but the best way is to tell him he is tough and smart and handsome and gentle
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